We keep blaming the wrong person.

If you can’t stick to a content plan, the first suspect is always you. Not disciplined enough. Not organised enough. Not batching properly. Not consistent enough. And sometimes that’s true. But I think abandoning a content plan over and over is often really useful information about the plan itself.

Most of us would have a medal for collecting content plans we never really follow through. The Notion template. The colour-coded spreadsheet from a workshop that still has the first week and a half filled in.

And every time one quietly dies, we start the next one the same way. By promising to become a slightly better, slightly more organised person.

Why can’t I stick to a content plan?

For an embarrassing amount of time I was dead set that the problem was me.

I needed to be more disciplined. Plan further ahead. Batch properly. Stop changing my mind. Pick a niche and for the love of God Tinna STICK TO THE BLOODY PLAN.

So I’d make a new one. Fresh calendar, new pillars, a little burst of hope. It would last a couple of weeks, and then one day I’d look at it, feel guilty, and do something else. And the guilt would go straight back to the same place. Me.

What I didn’t do, for a long time, was ask what the plan was actually asking me to do. Which tasks I skipped every single time. Which posts never got made no matter how many times I moved them to next week.

Because if you keep walking past the same thing on your plan, that’s a pattern. And patterns are information.

Is it procrastination or is the plan wrong?

Look, there is a massive difference between:

“I don’t feel like doing this today”

and

“I keep building plans around a version of myself and my business I don’t actually want to maintain, or simply can’t.”

That second one is hugeeee.

The first one is normal. Everyone has days where the last thing they want to do is write a caption. Some things require reps. Some things are just boring. And sometimes you really are procrastinating and need to wash your face and move your butt.

And NO, I’m not saying every time something feels difficult we throw the whole strategy in the bin. Slow down.

But the second one is a design problem. You can’t discipline your way out of a plan that was built for someone else. You’ll just keep failing at it with more effort.

So how do you tell which one you’re dealing with? I’d look at what keeps getting skipped. If it’s random, a different thing each week depending on how the kids slept, that’s probably just life. If it’s the SAME thing every time… the same format, the same kind of topic… that’s the plan telling you something.

What does it mean when you keep abandoning your content plan?

Maybe your plan says you need to film four talking-head reels a week, but your stomach drops every time you press record.

Or you’ve built five content pillars because someone told you that you need five content pillars. Except two of them are sh*t you don’t even want to talk about. So every time one of those days comes up, you stall, scroll for “inspiration”, and post nothing.

At some point, how many times can you abandon the same type of plan before considering that your inability to follow it is not the only thing that needs investigating?

We keep playing murder mystery and blaming the wrong guy.

It’s a bit like what happens when an Instagram profile isn’t converting. We go straight back to the posts and start rewriting them, when the leak was somewhere else entirely. I wrote about that in Instagram Profile Not Converting? Check This First. Same habit, different crime scene. We grab the most obvious suspect and stop looking.

I think we’ve become very good at designing content systems around what we theoretically COULD do, and not nearly curious enough about what we actually WANT to keep doing.

Those are very different plans. One looks great in a template. The other one is still running in month three.

How do I make a content plan I’ll actually follow?

Eventually your content plan has to survive contact with you. The full, busy, multidimensional, laundry-backed-up you.

I work about 20 hours a week on my business. I have a son at school, a daughter, a husband and a dog called Mapple with a very convincing fake limp. If my plan pretends I have a free Tuesday afternoon with good lighting and nobody needing a snack, that plan is basically fan fiction.

So when I build a plan now, I start with the stuff we usually leave out:

Your capacity. Not the hours you’d have if every client replied on time and nobody got sick. The hours you actually have.

Your opinions. The things you’d happily talk about at a dinner party without anyone asking.

Your business. What you actually sell, and what the content needs to lead people towards.

And the things you absolutely refuse to become, just because they perform well or would represent some kind of gain. If you hate dancing on camera, a plan full of trending audio is never going to last, no matter how well it worked for Helen.

Otherwise you’re not really building a system. You’re writing a bunch of instructions for an unpaid fictional employee who happens to have your face.

And then getting annoyed when you don’t want to be them 😂

Don’t fire the poor thing. Just build something that actually works for them.

What should I check before starting another content plan?

Before you download another template, do a little detective work on the plans you’ve already got. You’ve done the hard bit. You’ve collected the evidence. Now read it.

• Pull out your last two or three abandoned plans and write down roughly when each one stopped.
• Circle the task, format or topic you skipped most often. Be honest, you know which one it is.
• Write down the hours you actually have for content each week, on a normal week, not a dream week.
• Cross out any content pillar you don’t genuinely want to talk about.
• Swap the format you dread for one you’d still do on a tired Thursday with a sick kid at home.
• Keep the new plan small enough that missing one day doesn’t make the whole thing fall over.

If you do this and the answer really is “I just didn’t feel like it”, fine. That’s useful too. At least now you know it’s a reps problem and not a design problem, and you can stop redesigning the bloody thing every month.

But if the same things keep showing up on your skipped list, stop trying harder at them. Change them.

So what’s the one thing your plan keeps asking you to do that you never actually do?

Want a content plan that fits the real you?

This is a big part of why The Content Engine doesn’t start with a posting schedule. It starts with your business and the hours you really have, so the plan you leave with is built for the person who has to run it.

It’s a 90-day community where we build your plan week by week, with a live call every week and support in the community on weekdays. So when something stops working, we look at why instead of you quietly abandoning it again.

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